You need to believe in yourself. You are capable of anything you can imagine. If you think you can, you are right, but if you think you can’t, you are also right. Once you build your confidence you will do things that you never thought were capable.
If you are not a very confident person it is best to start on small things and build on it. For example, let say you want to do one hundred pushups at a time, but you can only due ten. Do your ten pushups every other day for a week. The following week see how many you can do. Lets say now you can do fifteen. So every other day you now do fifteen pushups and build up doing more pushups every week until you can do one hundred pushups. This is how accomplishments work. Set a goal a work towards in little steps and before you know it you will acheive your goal.
You need to set goals and work toward your goals until they are achieved. Take it day by day and build on your accomplishments. A thousand mile journey starts with a single step. When you first were learning how to read, you did not just pick up a novel and start reading it. You learned the alphabet, then you learned the sounds the letters make, and then you went on to read words then sentences. Everything will take time just keep moving forward towards your goal and you will achieve them.
Stay away from negativity. Push all negative thoughts out of your mind. Negativity is like a cancer and will eat away the belief in yourself. Do not let anyone tell you “you can’t do it”. There are many people out there that want to burst your bubble. They’ll say “you can’t make a million dollars” or “you can’t lose 50 pounds”. You need to say “I can!” Do not accept negative views, they will bring you down. When everyone else is saying give it up and you can not go on anymore this is the time that your life can change. If you reach down and find a way to push through and finish your objective you will discover the power of perseverance. A person who has discovered perseverance has discovered the secret of accomplishment. Belief in yourself, find your perseverance and all negativity will fade away.
You can accomplish anything you set your mind to. You need to stay focused and keep your goal in mind at all times. I have heard of drug addicts that have a $300 a day habit, but they don’t have a job. They get money for drugs because that is all they are thinking about. They are focused on supporting their drug habit. Now if a drug addict without a job can support a $300 a day habit, then you should be able to accomplish your goals also.
So remember believe in yourself. Start off small and build confidence. Work towards your goals and eventually you will reach them. Stay away from negativity and push it out of your life. Discover perseverance and stay focused on your goals and you will accomplish unbelievable things.
Perseverance is the hard work you do after you get tired of doing the hard work you already did. ~ Newt Gingrich
Fall seven times, stand up eight. ~ Japanese Proverb
